Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

My New List

So yesterday I wrote about how I thought it was important, for me, to know what I’m looking for in a guy and in a relationship and to stay focused on those things.   That otherwise it might be like grocery shopping without a list.  I’d get home and find I’ve bought lots of treats and […]
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Hiatus + other stuff

I’ve decided to put Best Date Spots on hiatus.  At least for this week.  Maybe more.  I love NYC and I love writing about cool places to go here (although truth be told, I’ll never give up my top 3 favorite places for fear that they’ll become even more crowded).  But I’m just not feeling […]
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Damn, It’s Nice Out

It is just SO nice out right now that I felt inspired by it to share some of my sunshine joy.  I wanted to put up a video of the song New York City Sunshine by Lloyd Cole but I couldn’t find one (just a clip of him singing part of the song in concert […]

Forget About Cougars

I spend way too much time online, reading blogs and on Twitter.  And every day I must see about a dozen references to cougars.  They make me laugh, because that’s not really a category that’s relevant to me or anyone I know. I’m more worried about piranhas. I hope you’ll give me some leeway here […]
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Alright, Already

Enough with the whining and the moaning.  No one wants to hear it. I’ve decided that maybe the best way to handle this crisis is to handle it the way I’ve handled similar crisises in the past (no, not get drunk and sleep with the first gorgeous but inappropriate man who seems convenient, although that […]
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