Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Learning to Read

Without giving too much away, Lostplum and I have been working (with varying levels of diligence) on a couple of new projects together.  One of them is Cupcakes & Cupid (Hey, single New Yorkers, have you gotten your tickets yet?  Guys, we haven’t forgotten about you.  You can come to the party on the 13th.*) […]

The Things I Remember (A Memory of Naked Dating)

I’d forgotten all about this.  Probably because most of my memories from this relationship are not happy ones. Sometimes it’s just better to let go of sadness. Anyways, it was a few years ago.  I’d met this man who I liked quite a bit.  I didn’t think, from the start, that the relationship was going […]

Spoiled For Choice

Not too long ago a reader made a comment along the lines of, you’re obviously too picky – you should have met someone by now since you go out with so many men (I’m paraphrasing). I’m sure there are plenty of people who read my blog and think the same thing.  That I’m too picky […]

5 Things I Love About Being Single & Dating in New York City

I know, I know – I’ve used this blog on more than one occasion to vent about how difficult it can be for a woman (especially a woman in her late 30s) to date in NYC.  And it is hard. There are, by anyone’s count, more women that men here(although there is some debate as […]
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As a Matter of Fact, It Was a Pretty Awesome Date

I’ve been so busy recovering from Lostplum’s birthday party that I forgot to write about my date Thursday night. He could be a keeper. (I’m grinning as I type this, btw). Here’s the backstory:  We first met online weeks ago.  And honestly, I didn’t have high hopes for him.  He seemed great in a lot […]
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