Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Rethinking My Love

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, there are few things I really believe in and hold to be true.  I don’t believe in god, organized religion, monogamy (although I have plenty of respect for people who do believe in those things and would hope that you all – the majority – could […]
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The Chase

So here I am, genuinely confused.  Well, not exactly confused.  But of two minds. As some of you might know from an earlier post, I’m a fan of VSB (anyone who takes offense at their humor should send complaints to them, not me).  Earlier this week they did a post on why women shouldn’t approach […]
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Pretty Day, Ugly Thoughts

I just came back from one of the nicest walks I’ve taken in ages.  The city is beyond gorgeous today.  The sun is shining but there’s a cool breeze and so it’s warm without being hot.  I took a nice long walk through Central Park, with lots of stops along the way to just sit […]
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Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda(?)

It might be hard for people who don’t live here to imagine this, but New Yorkers bump into people they know all of the time.  Sure, it’s a BIG city.  But it’s also just a collection of neighborhoods. This morning, as I was out fetching milk (for my coffee), I bumped into a guy I […]

And It Was Good

So last night’s date was full of surprises.  Most of them good. He’s SO an old picture guy.  He’s the same weight, but his hair is significantly more gray and a totally different style.  I think gray hair can be totally hot, btw.  In fact, I think he was way more attractive in person than […]
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