Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Who can you count on?

Here’s a bad but useful simile for you.  My single-ness is like a chronic health condition. I’ve been suffering from it for years, and sometimes it goes away for a stretch, weeks or months, when I’m in a relationship. It just always seems to come back.  I long for the day when I can kick […]
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Reality Check

Yeah, I watched Sex in the City.  Not first run, ’cause I don’t have cable, but in reruns.    One of the episodes that made an impression on me is when Carrie was hired to teach a Learning Annex class on where to meet men.  Hundreds of women show up, and of course she has […]

10 dates in 3 weeks

I have a date in a few hours, nothing big, just a late afternoon coffee break. This will be my tenth first day in three weeks. I want to be clear here, this is nowhere near a record for me. I can recall hitting 5 first dates a week for a month solid a few […]
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About Me

This is my old “About Me”.  I didn’t want to delete it or the comments that were left on that page on my old blogsite. I’m a 39 yr old single girl in New York City who dates a lot. That’s right, you read correctly, a 39-yr old single GIRL. When I was younger, in […]