Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Some More About Me

People make all kinds of assumptions about one another out here in cyberspace. I’m pretty new to it all, and I find it all kind of bizarre and frightening. I just started this blog a few months ago. Prior to that, I was aware of personal blogs and had read a few that friends kept, […]
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Waking Up With Someone

I can’t imagine living somewhere that didn’t have seasons. I love it when the leaves change colors. I love the cool spring nights. I love the snow. I even love the sticky New York summers, when I need to hang out by the river to stay cool. But I do hate how cold the mornings […]
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A quick word on my meaning of successful.  Last night, as I was drifting off, I realized that I’ve used that word to describe a lot of the guys I go out with. When I say a guy is successful, I’m not talking about money. Sure, over the years, I’ve dated some guys who were […]
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Good Date, Bad Dater

I twittered about most of this (twittering – so bizarre), btw. I was starting to get annoyed with the freelancer.  We spoke briefly last night and left it that we were going to have dinner tonight.  No where or when.  We were going to speak sometime today to confirm the details. That kind of thing […]
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I took the night off from dating last night and was hanging out with a dear friend.  It was a beautiful, clear night. One of those nights that reminds me of why I like this city so much.  I’m a lousy photographer, in general, but I took this while we were out for a walk. […]
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