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The Top 10 Posts of 2011

Wow, am I late with this! Record setting late. I’ve been so busy catching up on work and life that I’ve been slacking off on the blog. I’ll try to do better. That’s all any of us can really do. Try. So, in case you’re interested, here’s how I put this list together. I go […]
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The Day I Learned I Couldn’t Be Nice To Women

We’re having a glorious weekend in NYC. Nearly perfect weather, if there is such a thing. But I wanted to take a few minutes away from my sun worship (with ample sunblock, of course) to share this fabulous new Guy’s Story with you. Today’s guest author is Christian Polanco, a comedian and podcaster who does […]

The Top 10 Posts of 2010

I’m a few days late with this. But better late than never? As my regular readers know, I’m not a big fans of lists. But I do love data. And so I’m one of those pathetically geeky people who look at year-end statistics to see if I can make heads or tails of what it […]

This is Why People Hate Dating

I was supposed to have a date this weekend. And another tonight. Supposed to. They were going to be my first 2 dates in months. But no. Both were cancelled. And this is why (some) people hate dating. I don’t, for the record, hate dating. No usually.  But some days… Here’s the story: I crawled […]

Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

I work from home, which has its pros and cons.  Yesterday it was pouring rain and so it was great that I didn’t have to go out in it (I did go out last night to pick up juice and soup, as I’m nursing the same damn cold everyone in NYC seems to have right […]