Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

A Change of Scenery

As I mentioned recently, I haven’t been doing too well on nerve.com. Still getting attention from guys in their 20s, 50s and 60s, but not so much from the men in their late 30s and 40s  - the ones I’d want to date. Things are different over on OkCupid. There are still plenty of candidates, […]

The Dating Game Update: Not Winning/Not Losing

Earlier this month I wrote a couple of times about a game, an experiment, I was trying with Lucky Girl.  I haven’t mentioned it in a while though, and there’s a reason for that. It went really poorly. At first it was fun, looking at guys’ profiles for someone else.  I’d send her a bunch […]

How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 4

Not long after that first date, I made plans to meet another guy from nerve for coffee. Unlike my “regular” dates with men I meet online, I made it a practice of always meeting guys who were interested in NSA for coffee/during the day. I didn’t think they were more dangerous, or anything like that. […]

How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 3

So I knew I wanted to find a fuckbuddy. But I didn’t know where I should look. I’d seen plenty of ads for Adult Friend Finder (no link, because it’s NSFW) and so I figured I’d give it a try. I lasted about a week. First off, a pretty high percentage of the guys posted […]
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More Fun with Audience Participation

As I mentioned earlier in the week, I feel like I’m ready to return to dating again.  So now what? Well, step one is for me to unhide my online profile(s).  I’ll probably activate my profiles on nerve and OkCupid.  I took a few minutes (really, just a few) last night to browse new members […]