It’s broken record time. I’m not a fan of lists. Of any type. Or boxes, or false dichotomies or judgmental people… But I’m perfectly capable of stepping outside my comfort zone in the hopes of learning something new. So, last week, when I was at that workshop, and it came time for us to work [...]

It’s time for another Guy’s Story. Every Sunday I have posts from male guest authors. This week’s Guy’s Storyis from my good friend theurbandater.  You should check out his awesome blog, The Urban Dater. Lists. We keep lists for a variety of reasons. Mostly we keep and maintain them so that we don’t for get things. Lists are useful, they pro­vide [...]

Last Wednesday, Twanna Hines had a great post on her blog, Funky Brown Chick. It was called, Is Good Sex a Basic Human Need? I knew, just as soon as I read it, that I wanted to write something on the topic.  But the more I thought about it the less sure I was about [...]

I am so not into the holidays. Not Thanksgiving or Xmas/Hanukkah (same difference). And I’m perfectly happy to forgo all of the traditions that go with them, including the gifts exchange. It’s just all so forced. So needless to say I didn’t rush out to shop the Black Friday sales. I’d rather walk on broken [...]

In my last post I disclosed my need for a guy who takes the lead.  (I know, from experience, that if I try to have a relationship with a man who doesn’t want to have that role in our relationship then I’m going to be miserable). I’m still dealing with family stuff and so I’m [...]