Guacamole and Sarah Vaughan
Yesterday was an extremely stressful day for me, personal life wise. Lots of frustrating calls to the insurance company, drs office, pharmacy… THAT kind of day ( I know there are some of you who can relate). Anyway, it ended with me crawling into bed with a great book (1Q84 - so unbelievably awesome) and [...]
You’re Just a Fool
In honor of April Fools Day – a brief meditation on being a fool. But first, a musical interlude. A fool in love, we’ve all been there. Well, maybe I shouldn’t make those kind of assumptions. I guess there are some people who’ve never been consumed by emotion and thus acted like a goddamn fool. [...]
What’s Going On?
But first a musical interlude. So what’s going on? Good question. I’ve been kinda quiet about my dating life lately. I actually have been on a few dates in recent weeks. Perfectly fine dates with perfectly fine guys. One was followed by days of texts. Texts that I was slow to reply to, because I hate [...]
“All You Need Is Love”
Ok, I wanted to end the workweek with a fun quote/non-quote and a bit of music. And, btw, nice load of shite. Millions of people go their whole lives without romantic love. Our current (western) concept of love is, from a broad historical perspective, rather new. But I write about dating and relationships. I’m not [...]
Cheer Me the F*ck Up
As my facebook friends and twitter followers will tell you, I have coping issues. I eat when I’m stressed. Chocolate, potato chips and gummy candy all washed down with Dr. Pepper. Self-destructive binging. There are worse habits. Anyway, I was more than a little upset this weekend and rather than hit the corner bodega for [...]




