Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Mel V. G-O-D

I’m so excited about today’s guest post, for a couple of reasons. A) I’m excited I remembered to post it. B) It’s from the always fabulous Miss Melisa Mae. Mel  V. G-O-D If you had a car, you had a bedroom.  The backseat was ample enough room to become acquainted with the object of one’s […]

Love the One You’re With

It had never occurred to me, as a child or a teen, to question the concept of monogamy. My family and upbringing was fairly conservative. And yet, it was the 70s, so lots of other ways of looking at the world were sneaking into my brain via music and tv. Whether I realized it or […]

Cheater, Cheater

One week 183 Total Votes No, 53% Yes, 47% This means that in all probability, approximately half the people reading this have cheated. Sure, the Nos win out with a slight majority. But only ever so slight. Looks like we had an awful lot of cheaters drop by in the last week (in case you’re curious, […]

Cheating Hearts & Other Parts

So the folks over at Marie Claire got me thinking.  They did this He Said/She Said column about cheating and, according to them, men are more upset by a partner’s sexual infidelity while women are more upset by emotional infidelity.  Or something like that? So a guy would be more pissed off if his girlfriend […]

Can a Leopard Change His/Her Spots?

You all know how much I like hearing from you.  I love getting your messages (it’s easy to reach me via the OnSugar system, Twitter DM, facebook).  Not so much the angry/nonsensical tirades in the comments section, but they’re easy enough to delete. Well, a couple days ago I got a message that kind of […]
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