Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Give a Guy a Chance?

So this is a story of me being completely picky and unreasonable. Or maybe it’s not.  Truth is, my memory is a little hazy on the details. I got a message in my online dating inbox the other day from a man who wondered why I rejected him (he didn’t use those words, but that’s [...]

More Bad Timing

So last week I got an email from a guy I met a few years ago.  We’d met, had one date and nothing ever came of it.  I don’t remember much, but I guess I liked him well enough (told him I’d see him again) and then he started seeing someone else (? seriously, I’m [...]

If Hands Could Have Sex We Were Making Porn

Happy Valentine’s Day. Hope you weren’t expecting a Valentine’s Day post.  Nope, it’s time for another Guy’s Story. Every Sunday I have posts from male guest authors. This week’s Guy’s Story is from Mike Masters. Mike writes a humorous dating advice blog for women over at Mikethemasterdater.com. If Hands Could Have Sex We Were Making Porn You know when something slightly traumatic [...]

Happiness + Time

As some of you know, I also have a tumblr blog (there’s a link to it on my header). I don’t post there often. I’m kinda a tumblr slacker. But I love the platform. The other day I was trying to catch up on my tumblr browsing (something I’ll never do) and I read this [...]

Chicks Look On the Bright Side? – My 5 Least Favorite Things About Relationships

I’m sure I’ve mentioned this before – my memory is good for shit.  I’d say it’s early senility, because I am getting old and that’s almost a legit excuse, but my friends and family know better,  My memory is actually severely affected by some medicine I have to take.  It’s not something I’m happy about, [...]