Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Mel V. G-O-D

I’m so excited about today’s guest post, for a couple of reasons. A) I’m excited I remembered to post it. B) It’s from the always fabulous Miss Melisa Mae. Mel  V. G-O-D If you had a car, you had a bedroom.  The backseat was ample enough room to become acquainted with the object of one’s […]

I am woman, hear me rant

I got a call from a friend asking me if I could take the afternoon off, one day later in the week. She needed someone to go with her to the doctor. I said, yes, of course. But I was wondering, as I said it, why she was asking me. Why her husband wouldn’t be […]

The Princess Thing

So, I’ve become a little obsessed with the Royal Wedding. OK, let me rephrase/reframe that. I’ve become obsessed with other’s people’s obsession with the wedding and with everything wedding-related and princess-y. Like so many pop culture phenomena, I don’t quite get it. Although I’ve been reading some very interesting analysis of why people (especially women) […]

Stories Change

A few days ago I mentioned a research study involving divorced women. According to an article detailing the study, “30 percent of now-divorced women say they knew in their gut they were making a mistake as they walked down the aisle — and kept walking anyway.” It’s easy to guess why this might be so. […]

Love and Stuff

It was a couple of weeks ago. I was sitting at the computer one morning, polishing up the post for the day. And emails were coming in every couple of minutes. And the phone kept ringing. And all of sudden, I realized that I had to stop. Something had to give. I’d just been to […]