Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Lust in My Heart

Oh good god, here I go again. First off, my sincere apologies to my awesome fellow bloggers in the Insomnia Club. Weeks ago we’d agreed on a topic and a date for posting. And then I promptly forgot all about it. I suck. So the topic is LUST and I was supposed to post something […]

Bringer of Butterflies

Today’s guest post comes to us from the fabulous Princess Jones of The Bitch Blog.  You should absolutely go check it out! Bringer of Butterflies You know, if a 30 year old has been dating since she was fifteen with an average at least two relationships a year, that’s 30 boyfriends. And you also have […]

Goldilocks and the 3 Bears

You all know the story of Goldilocks and the 3 Bears, right? Lost in the forest, she walked into a strange house and tried to make herself at home. It took a bit of trial and error, but she found things that suited her, JUST RIGHT. Lucky for her, there were only 3 of everything […]

‘I’m Too Sexy’ Valentine’s Day Contest

I’m just gonna come out and say it – I’m sexier now than I was 10 years ago.  Or 20 years ago. Hold on tight, there are tangents-a-plenty. I might have had a better body in my 20s and/or 30s. But back then, I wasn’t nearly as comfortable in my own skin as I am […]

It Doesn’t Get Any Easier

I was at a friend’s 39th birthday party last night.  I told her “welcome to the club, it’s a good club”.  And I meant it.  39’s been a heck of a lot more interesting, so far, than 29 was.  And I’m eagerly looking forward to my 40th birthday in a few months. But as much […]