Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

My Rules of Attraction

A couple of days ago, Lucky Girl wrote a very smart post called My Rules of Attraction.  Her basic premise is that physical attraction is important.  Not the most important thing, but very important.  Here’s how she sums it up: “I think my point is that I can not think of an instance where I […]

The Dating Game Update: Not Winning/Not Losing

Earlier this month I wrote a couple of times about a game, an experiment, I was trying with Lucky Girl.  I haven’t mentioned it in a while though, and there’s a reason for that. It went really poorly. At first it was fun, looking at guys’ profiles for someone else.  I’d send her a bunch […]

Shame On Me

It’s after 1pm and I’m just sitting down to write my post.  Shame on me. January 2 and I’m already blowing one of my resolutions – take my blog more seriously. I’ve been preoccupied this morning with getting my new online profiles together (they’re not really “new”, just updated) and shopping for guys for Lucky […]

A New Dating Game

Sorry, I’m so over the best ofs, the reflections, the looking forward – this is just a straight forward post. Yeah, I know it’s 1/1/10 and I just don’t care. As I hinted at yesterday, Lucky Girl and I are going to be trying something new.  As she and I use several of the same online […]
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Happiness + Time

As some of you know, I also have a tumblr blog (there’s a link to it on my header). I don’t post there often. I’m kinda a tumblr slacker. But I love the platform. The other day I was trying to catch up on my tumblr browsing (something I’ll never do) and I read this […]
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