Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Love at First Sight

One of the new features of my site is the little teaser poll (over in the right corner, in the pretty rose box).  I’m going to be switching them out every week or so. The first question I posed was, “Do you believe in love at first sight?  Because of some, um, technical difficulties it […]

Some Things Are Beyond Our Control

Perhaps I should have called today’s post, “Incoherent Ramblings on a Rainy Saturday Afternoon”.  My apologies. I was talking with a friend last night about heartache. We didn’t label it heartache, but that’s what we were talking about. That horrible feeling you get when your heart feels so full of pain and hurt and leftover […]

“Getting My Act Together”????

Recently, as part of a comment about ending things with M, a reader mentioned that it sounded like I was getting my act together.  It was meant, I suppose, as a compliment. I’ve been thinking about it ever since.  I guess I don’t see how telling M that he blew it was getting my act […]


So… First off, I think I might turn the comments off for this post. I just don’t think I can deal. My life has taken some seriously strange twists and turns in the last couple of years.  If I were to sit down and have a “catch up” talk with an old friend who I […]
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It Was Worth It

Short, late post this morning because I fell asleep late last night at my computer (seriously, I feel asleep with my laptop open, on my lap, hunched over).  I’m not a cheerful little worker bee today and I have an insane amount of work to do. So yesterday, after meeting about a bunch of work-ish […]