Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The Top 10 Posts of 2010

I’m a few days late with this. But better late than never? As my regular readers know, I’m not a big fans of lists. But I do love data. And so I’m one of those pathetically geeky people who look at year-end statistics to see if I can make heads or tails of what it […]

Everybody Lies

Last night I got invited out to an workshop hosted by Downtown Dharma. It was, “Creating Love and Money: An evening to help you know your worth, create abundance, and attract real love.” Now, anyone who knows me well, knows that I’m not really the workshop type. Not because I think my life is so […]

Fine Isn’t Good Enough for Me

So this is a story inside of a story, written by a still-very-sick woman. It may or may not make any sense. A friend came by with soup and juice, for which I was grateful. More for the company than for the soup and juice.  She mentioned a couple dates she’d been on recently and […]

I’m In Love With a Friend… What the Hell?

There are many, many things I can’t wrap my head around. One of which is the whole, “I fell in love with a friend” phenomenon. I just don’t get it. For instance, this post in YourTango (seems like sensible advice, if such a thing were to actually occur). Or the classic sitcom silliness of Monica […]

Luck Luck Luck Luck Luck – > There, I said it!

I was chatting with a friend over dinner last night.   He’s single.  I’m single.  We’d each prefer to be in a relationship, if it were the right one/a good one.  But we’re not in relationships.  *shrug* And I said that the thing that upsets me most about the single/dating industry (of which, I realize, […]