Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The Truth Can Set You Free

Elizabeth Rose, one-third of our friends north of the border at MetAnotherFrog, contributes today’s tale of long distance love lost. Even if freedom is not your choice or your desire… The Truth Can Set You Free “You can’t handle the truth!” ~ Jack Nicholson, A Few Good Men Long ago, in a far away land, Elizabeth […]

Reason #372 Why Facebook is the Devil

My move is over.  Finally. The last of my stuff is out of my old place and into my new place. Now, for the next few weeks/months my life is all about unpacking. The disorder makes me crazy. Crazier than usual. One of the things I came across, over the weekend, was an old decorative […]

Should She Stay or Should She Go?

Actually, I think she should do whatever the hell she wants. I just love an excuse to sneak in some Clash (see video below). The she in question is Michelle Rhee, DC Public Schools Chancellor.  Yesterday, I read this great post that Feministing did on her engagement to Kevin Johnson, the Mayor of Sacramento, Long-distance […]

The LDR Conundrum

I can’t think of single girlie mag or dating/sex/romance focused website that hasn’t done a piece on long-distance relationships in the past few months.  They’ve ranged from, Strategies to Make Your LDR Work, to Why LDRs Never Work.  It makes sense. It’s a timeless topic, especially for single women (some of whom may have to […]

Learning The Hard Way

There are a lot of dating blogs out here on the interwebz.  Lots of blogs.  Lots of bloggers.  Lots of advice.  I don’t tend to give much advice.  And when I do it’s usually the product of a hard-learned lesson. I’m willing to tell you what I know doesn’t work (because I’ve failed miserably) and […]