Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Speaking of Lies

But first, just to state the obvious, I’m a woman. A heterosexual woman. And so my dating and relationship experiences are all with guys. So when I tell a story (and talk unfavorably about a specific thing some guy did), I am not implying that only men are guilty of a type of behavior. And […]

That Truth Thing

I was catching up on my blog reading (OK, the truth is I had horrible insomnia, AGAIN, and was up half the night surfing the net and I’m still nowhere near caught up on my blog reading. There are just so many great blogs to read, I’ll never get caught up.) when I came across […]
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You Can Live Without Me

Fun fact: I’ve dated, not one, but two men with active stalkers. Now, before I get too deeply into this, let me give my standard aside/backpedal.  There are hundreds, probably thousands of perfectly normal, decent people with stalkers.  Stalkers are emotionally imbalanced people.  People with stalkers are victims. That said, I’ve come to believe that […]
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I Can Admit When I’m Wrong

I admit it.  There’s a pretty good chance that I’ve been wrong.  For a while.  That I’ve been making some bad decisions.  Over and over. Gee, what a surprise. Back when I was saying that it didn’t matter that so many men lied on their online profiles about their height, weight and/or age.  That it […]

There’s Always More to the Story

On Tuesday, I wrote about my cancelled date with Mr. Nicepost and the way I felt about it (stressed, distrustful, ashamed at my own lack of trust).  I tried to be as open and honest with you as I could be about my feelings, while at the same time leaving out lots of details about […]
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