Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Giving Up is Hard to Do

But first, because I can’t help myself I know that many of my readers are way too young to get the reference, but it’s one of those random songs from my childhood, forever playing on the oldies station in my head. So yeah, breaking up is hard to do. But for me, giving up is […]

The Gift of Gab

My relationship with twitter has evolved over the last 2 years. I still love it, don’t get me wrong. I’m one of those weird people who goes out of her way to actually meet, IRL, the people she “meets” via social media. And I’ve met some really awesome people. But for the most part, lately, […]

Finding the Line

So, I’d mentioned a good (first) date last week… Since then, I’ve seen that same man a few times.  3 to be exact. And, because I thought he’d care, I told him about the blog. So here’s the deal. I’m not sure what any of that means. It could mean absolutely nothing. 3 dates is, […]

This Can’t Be Right, Can It? (American Sex Survey)

So last week Tressugar referenced a statistic from the American Sex Survey that seemed utterly implausible to me, that only 34% of women thought about sex daily. She thought it seemed pretty dubious, too, and asked her readers to weigh in. I was intrigued and so I opened up the survey and started reading (at […]

It Finds You

A friend of mine is always telling me, “You can’t go looking for love.  It finds you, not the other way around.” It’s the kind of thing I used to believe in.  But I don’t anymore.  Or at least I don’t think I should.  It’s just not healthy to hold on to those fantasies forever.  […]