Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Top 5 Reasons Why Every Single Girl NEEDs A Bunch of Guy Friends (the Type Who Like Boobs)

Remember When Harry Met Sally? No, not the scene at Katz’s (which, btw, is not as good as it used to be).  The bit about men and women not being able to be friends.  It made for great movie dialogue, but lucky for me, I’ve always known it’s a load of crap. How do I […]

Online Dating: A Follow Up (2 Minutes in the Cereal Aisle)

Online dating.  Everywhere I look there seems to be people talking and writing about online dating (I’m not sure if that’s a good or bad omen for Cupcakes & Cupid. Time will tell.).  Last week Jezebel questioned whether there was still a stigma attached to online dating. I think there most definitely is not, and […]

Willing To Lie About How We Met

I don’t see it as often anymore, but there was a time when you’d see a lot of online dating headlines that said, Willing to Lie About How We Met or something like it.  Translation for my readers who’ve never tried online dating:  Most online dating services ask you to use a headline for your […]
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Saturday Preview

I’ve had a rough week (my Twitter followers already know this).  My health has been touch and go and, well, no need to go into all of it here.  Suffice it to say to I’m glad the week is over and hoping for an easier ride next week. Over the course of the last few […]
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Sex Is…

Yesterday Jezebel ran a piece called Few People Agree On the Definition of Sex. They covered an issue that I’ve been meaning to write about for a while, namely that different people mean different things when they say the word sex. For some people, sex includes oral sex.  For others it doesn’t.  There are actually […]