Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Sex, Lies and Linklove

I’ve been collecting a long list of posts/topics to write about. And each day the list just gets longer and longer. And… the truth is, I’m still working my ass off to get caught up on work/writing from when I wasn’t feeling well. So, I just don’t have the time/energy to blog as much as […]

Regrets, I’ve Had a Few (Dozen)

I’ve always thought that most people fall into one of 2 categories: A) those who carefully think through everything they do in life, in advance (these people frequently pride themselves on their good judgment), B) those who occasionally (or more than occasionally) throw caution to the wind (these people frequently remind themselves that life is […]

Fun with Science aka Why I’m Still Single

So lots of people have been posting and tweeting about this really cool article in Scientific American, What Attachment Theory Can Teach About Love and Relationships. I first read about it in Jezebel a couple of days ago and immediately clicked through, read it and did their handy, dandy little test. Speaking of which, since […]

What Women Want

Dress up anything in the guise of scientific research, and I’ll read about it. ANYTHING. Including crap like, Study Reveals Once and For All What Women Find Attractive (and thank you Jezebel for finding this stuff for me). I’m not going to paraphrase the Jezebel post. There’s no point to that. Here’s the one-liner: the latest […]

“He’s not going to buy the cow if he can get the milk for free.”

I’ve been working on this post for the last few days.  Or rather, I’ve taken several stabs at it. I keep writing posts full of passion and conviction. None of which really belong here. The thing is, I have a stake in this fight.  But I try (TRY) to keep my temper in check and […]