Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Dreams of a Life

All of my regular readers have heard about my obsession with podcasts. I listen to them all all day long, and then most of the night (chronic insomnia is a bitch). I prefer podcasts to the radio, or tv and even, most times to music. I have a long list of favorites, and others that […]

Keeping You Up At Night… The Insomniac Club

I’ve been MIA… I don’t even know what to say about that. There are some things I’ve never felt comfortable writing about here. I’ve been sick. And struggling with that.  And that’s all I really can say now. Other than I missed another Insomnia Club posting last week. And I wanted to turn your attention […]

Warts and All?

Warning: It’s been a few days/nights since I’ve slept. When I say I haven’t slept, I mean, I haven’t slept. Not, not well. Last night, since I was so sleep deprived, I stopped work at 7pm (really early for me) and went to bed at 10. I tossed and turned and listened to podcasts until about […]

Redefining Butterflies

I think too much, plain and simple.  Always have. I had insomnia as a child, no joke. I’d stay up all night and think – why lie – worry. And I still do. It’s who I am.  This doesn’t mean I’m an unhappy person.  I’m not.  It just means I’m the kind of person who […]

For F*cks Sake

Let’s start with a fact – I don’t like loose ends.  Now, you read this and think, “OK, no big deal.”  But I mean, I really don’t like loose ends.  I’m pathological about it.  This is not me bragging.  This is me admitting a pretty big flaw in my personality. I like to wrap things […]