Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Give a Guy a Chance?

So this is a story of me being completely picky and unreasonable. Or maybe it’s not.  Truth is, my memory is a little hazy on the details. I got a message in my online dating inbox the other day from a man who wondered why I rejected him (he didn’t use those words, but that’s […]

How far would you travel for potential love?

I’ll admit it, I’ve been sucking at the online dating thing lately. To be honest, I’ve just been overwhelmed with life, work and health stuff since the beginning of the month. I want to date. I just haven’t been making the time. Instead, I’ve been letting messages sit in my online dating inbox, unanswered. Which […]

Speaking of Sex Toys…

Seriously, these things just show up in my inbox. And this was just too, wow, not to share. My longtime readers know I’m a total data geek. So much fun info: 20% of adults report indulging in kinky play; 20% of men report using vibrators; Alaska buys the most sex toys per capita…  Sarah Palin […]

Call It a Vacation If You Must

It was kinda weird.  I was talking with a friend the other day and she asked me about my dating life.  As if I had one. And I so don’t.  It’s been over a month since I’ve been out with anyone other than the Sunday Boy.  Actually, I have no idea how long it’s been. […]

You Winked?

I’m back in the game again.  Well, not completely.  I dipped a toe in last week, taking the time to sort through my inbox and do a quick search to see if anyone interesting popped up. And sure enough, amongst the messages (many of which were the typical, “you’re cute” which I usually just ignore) […]