Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Close Your Eyes and Think of England

Before I start today’s post, I’d like to kindly request that all of my IRL friends and acquaintances stop reading RIGHT NOW. Today’s post will provide a level of detail about my actual sex life that most definitely qualifies as TMI. I doubt that I could look any readers of this post in the eye, […]

Love the One You’re With

It had never occurred to me, as a child or a teen, to question the concept of monogamy. My family and upbringing was fairly conservative. And yet, it was the 70s, so lots of other ways of looking at the world were sneaking into my brain via music and tv. Whether I realized it or […]

In Praise of Sober Sex

Yeah, yeah, yeah, I’m SO late to this party.  It’s kinda sad.  Even for me.  I’ve been suppressing the urge to write about the “women need to get drunk to have sex” study since I first read about it 10 days ago.   I can hold it in no longer.  But I’ll get to that and […]
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Sex Math or Why I Haven’t Gotten Laid in Weeks

I hate to break this to you guys, but only about half of you are any good in bed.  Alright.  Screw the euphemisms.  Only about half of you are decent lays. This isn’t just my opinion, btw. I’ve checked this with several other sexually experienced women I know and that seems to be the general […]

Change You Can Live With?

A long, long time ago (in a land far, far away) I was dating the most shallow of boys.  And to be fair, our relationship was pretty shallow.  We liked each other enough, as people, and cared about each other.  But we had nothing in common and not much to talk about.  We were just […]
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