Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Looking Forward

It’s nearly the end of 2009.  We’re in the last quarter of the year, at any rate.  It’s hard for me to believe it, but it’s true. And while I’ve been on a lots (and lots) of first dates this year, only a smattering of those turned into second dates.  And even fewer of those […]
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This Is Reality

So I have jury duty this week.  I’ve postponed it a number of times and so this time it was non-negotiable.  I’m not complaining though. They have strong, reliable wifi and a/c and so what’s there to complain about? So here’s a funny jury duty story:  I kinda got dressed up yesterday morning.  Not super-dressed […]

Something Old, Something New (A Response and More)

Yesterday afternoon’s post triggered an interesting wave of comments.  I’m not going to be able to get to all of them right now(I will, I promise. It’s just been a rough week.). As I read them, the thing that stuff in my head was that perhaps I didn’t do a good job of explaining myself.  […]
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Hints of Hope

So this morning as I sat down to read the NYTimes I was struck by the headline, Hints of Hope Even as Jobless Rate Jumps to 9.4%. No, this post isn’t about the economy (I don’t want to get depressed).  It’s about hope and perspective. There are people/economists/politicians who look at our current economy and […]
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I Want to Believe

It was during my last phyiscal therapy session (neck injury – causing me much stress lately as I can’t work out/go to yoga) when my physical therapist stopped working on the kinks in my neck for a few minutes to tell me that, perhaps, my pains are physical manifestation of what’s going on in my […]
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