Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Date Machine

I feel a little like a date machine. Tonight’s date was actually pretty good. Another academic but this one was a science guy and he didn’t take himself too seriously. If it wasn’t for the rain and the too loud wine bar it might have even qualified as a very good date. He asked about […]

Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe

So now that I’m back to square one with new guys I have a couple of dates scheduled for this week plus a few other guys in the hopper. I thought I’d try something new and give you a preview of this week’s dates. Bachelor #1 is a type that I go for a lot […]


A friend recently asked me to weigh in on an issue related to her husband. My reply was, “he’s exactly the man you married”. Now, I wasn’t trying to be evasive. My point was this – he hadn’t changed a bit. The things that are driving her crazy now were clearly elements of his personality […]

More Dealbreakers, While We’re On the Topic

I met a good friend for dinner tonight and, as always, we found ourselves talking about my love life, or lack thereof. Actually there’s been a serious lack of love for a while now, lots of dates, no love. She’s half of a couple, so she’s good about listening and sympathizing, but like most of […]