Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The Exit Interview

Today’s guest blog is by Yue Xu. Yue is a dating coach for men (and self-proclaimed dating sociologist) in NYC.  Her blog is Singlefied. The Exit Interview Let’s face it, most of us don’t exactly get “closure” when we go through breakups.  Sometimes, after much time has passed, it’s hard to even pin point what were [...]

One Too Many Zebras

Get excited! We have an amazing guest post this morning from Rachel Khona, the brilliant writer behind Tales of a Dot Head. One too many zebras How many times have you thought “that person seems a little crazy/weird/slightly off, but what the hell maybe I’ll give them another shot?” OK, to be fair people do [...]

Why a Man Needs to Open his Heart AND Mouth

Today’s post is from Jeffrey Platts, a dating coach who is passionate about helping men and women connect more deeply and authentically, both in life and in love. Jeffrey blends the practical with the spiritual, sharing his own insights from real life adventures in love, dating, and as a lifelong student of spirituality, psychology and [...]

When a Man Buys You Drinks, Is He Entitled to More?

This week’s guest post is actually an excerpt from Jennifer Kelton’s fab book, Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel. For more of Jennifer’s writing, check out her blog at Bad Online Dates. When a Man Buys You Drinks, Is He Entitled to More? Although I was clearly wrapped up in conversation with another man, Peter [...]

Gonzo Moment

I am sooo happy it’s Thursday. First off, just one more day til Friday. But more importantly, I have a fun and fabulous guest post for you from my oh so fabulous friend KB in NYC. And I do mean fabulous (see, I’ve said it 3 times!). Gonzo Moment During my time away over the holidays, [...]