Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

5 Reasons Why I’m Happy to Be In My Late 30s

Last night I attended a party given by Thrillist with Lostplum. I’m sure she’ll be writing all about it.  Anyway, it was a last minute thing and I hopped at the opportunity to go, knowing full well that I’d probably be one of the oldest women there. Like a typical girl I sent Lostplum a […]

Go Outside

My brain is a bit like a slot machine.  I have all of these random, moving parts in there and every once in a while they all line up and bingo, fruit – fruit – fruit, we have a match.  I have a coherent thought made from three otherwise disparate bits of information (hey, either […]

Quick Update

Tonight is do or die time for Mr. Potential. He’s on his way to my place as I type. I invite him over for a quiet movie night. So, well, you know. I better damn well get laid. Details tomorrow. The Song of the Day is the Heart of Saturday Night. Tom Waits is always […]
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Dating in the Slow Lane

So last night was my third date with necking guy. For those of you who are just reading this blog for the first time, here’s the quick info on necking guy – good first date: fun, smart, interesting, cute (in a white bread kind of way that I don’t usually go for, but I’m trying […]
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I Was Warned Redux

For our second date he asked me out to dinner, in his neighborhood, a long subway ride away from my apartment and an exorbitently expensive nighttime cab ride home. It seemed pretty clear to me that he was thinking I’d spend the night at his place. I accepted his invitation but I promised myself and […]
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