Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Happy Happy

It was two and a half years ago, more or less.  I’m really bad with time.  Work was hectic. I’d had a string of emotionally exhausting relationships in the year prior.  And, well, I came to the conclusion that the very last thing I needed was another boyfriend.  I just couldn’t deal with another guy and […]
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Dead to Me

This is going to be one of those long and twisty posts with lots of links.  I’m warning you now.  I promise you that there is a point (or two). I’ve become quite fond of Twitter.  I think I’ve mentioned that before. This morning @onedatewonder alerted her followers that she’d posted something new on her […]

Waking Up With Someone

I can’t imagine living somewhere that didn’t have seasons. I love it when the leaves change colors. I love the cool spring nights. I love the snow. I even love the sticky New York summers, when I need to hang out by the river to stay cool. But I do hate how cold the mornings […]
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Crappy Update

Early this morning I received an email from my fuckbuddy.  The thing he’s working on now is going to run until midnight tonight instead of 7ish as he had originally thought.  I’m not mad. Disappointed but not mad.  This is not the first time this has happened with him and I know better than to […]
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Welcome

This week is getting wilder by the day.   I thought I’d post a quick update before bed. But first, I see I have a lot of new readers this week.  How cool.  Welcome to all of you.  Please let me know what you like best and least about the blog.  I am still figuring […]
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