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How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 2

To be completely honest, it took a while before I turned to the internet.  Even though I’d been using online dating sites for years, the thought of using an online dating site to find a fuckbuddy kinda freaked me out at first.  It seemed, IDK, just a little bit scary. So before I went shopping […]

How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 1

So, one of yesterday’s funnier comments started with this, “The cherry on this delusional, self-important sundae is how you think meeting a guy online interested in no strings sex is an accomplishment.” Actually, I do.  As I might have mentioned, I’ve had the same fuckbuddy for years.  We have pretty awesome sex, every time.  Get […]

One Night Stand

Last night I was out with some friends and the topic of one night stands came up.  One of my friends, a guy, has never had one and couldn’t exactly wrap his head around the concept of how they happen(really).  Well, I’ll be honest, I’ve had a few.  Not recently.  Not in years, in fact.  […]

I Don’t Know What to Call this Post

So, my regular readers have ‘heard’ me mention my fuckbuddy.  He’s someone I’ve known for a few years now.  He’s never been anything but a fuckbuddy.  We met at a time when I wasn’t in the slightest bit interested in a relationship (I was working 60+ hours a week and blah blah blah, I didn’t […]
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The 4 Things I Miss Most About Having a Regular Guy In My Life

I was lying in bed last night, alone.  Thinking about how much I hate lying in bed alone.  And thinking about how much I miss having a guy in my life.  Which is different than being lonely, btw. I can be lonely AND have a guy in my life.  And I can miss having a […]