Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

But I Don’t Care

I’m going to get so much shit for writing this, but I don’t care.  It’s true and it’s what I’m thinking now and I don’t even think it’s all that mean or controversial.  But if I hurt anyone’s feelings then let me say, “sorry”, in advance. I had the opportunity to catch up with one […]

Good Daters and Bad Daters, Part 1 – The Good

I guess you could consider this a follow up post, as I’ve brought up the topic of good daters and bad daters before (most recently here and here ). I think it’s a topic that could use some further exploration.  Tonight I’m going to write about good daters. I’ve gone out on a lot of dates in […]


I took the night off from dating last night and was hanging out with a dear friend.  It was a beautiful, clear night. One of those nights that reminds me of why I like this city so much.  I’m a lousy photographer, in general, but I took this while we were out for a walk. […]
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My Half Naked Pic

For a while now I’ve been been trying to decide what this blog should look like. I was pretty clueless when I started it.  I read a bunch of blogs, but I was so focussed on what they said, the writing, that it didn’t occur to me that they had a bunch of different layouts […]
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Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe

So now that I’m back to square one with new guys I have a couple of dates scheduled for this week plus a few other guys in the hopper. I thought I’d try something new and give you a preview of this week’s dates. Bachelor #1 is a type that I go for a lot […]
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