Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Anatomy of a Bad Date

I’ve been a little too overwhelmed with my life lately to keep up with my online dating stuff.  I know that someday soon I’m going to have to schedule a few hours to sit down and clear out the inboxes (Chemistry, especially, will take a lot of time). I’m not complaining.  It’s part of the […]

Character

Last week I got together with a couple of friends, LuckyGirl and JackfromBrooklyn, and since we all happen to be dating/relationship bloggers we talked a bit about relationship stuff.  One of the really smart things that came up in that conversation was that it was important to know and be able to tell the difference […]

A Friend of My Friend…

I can’t speak for anyone else, but for me, one of the big moments in any relationship is when I meet a guy’s friends. And perhaps, even more so, when I arrange for him to meet my friends. It means a lot to me, what my closest friends think of the men in my life. […]

It Doesn’t Get Any Easier

I was at a friend’s 39th birthday party last night.  I told her “welcome to the club, it’s a good club”.  And I meant it.  39′s been a heck of a lot more interesting, so far, than 29 was.  And I’m eagerly looking forward to my 40th birthday in a few months. But as much […]

“If I had to be married to have sex, I would probably be married, as would every guy I know.”

So, one of the many cool things I saw/read via twitter yesterday was this article in YourTango, 5 Reasons We’re Marrying After 30.  30, I guess, is considered “old” by lots of people and  the current average age of people getting married is 27.1 for men and 25.3. I gotta be honest, those numbers seem […]