Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.


First dates.  Let’s face it, they’re weird.  You get together with someone you don’t know (in my case, usually over drinks) to hang out/talk/get to know each other a little bit while you’re each thinking the same thing:  Is this someone I want to have sex with? Because, really, that’s what chemistry is.  At it’s […]

He’s Just Not That Into Me & I’m Kinda Bummed

So I had that first date on Tuesday night. The one that was really short.  He still hasn’t gotten in contact with me.  I haven’t gotten in contact with him, either.  And I have no intention of doing so.  I’m 100% positive that, in this case, it would be the wrong thing to do. It […]
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And It Was Good

So last night’s date was full of surprises.  Most of them good. He’s SO an old picture guy.  He’s the same weight, but his hair is significantly more gray and a totally different style.  I think gray hair can be totally hot, btw.  In fact, I think he was way more attractive in person than […]
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But The Good News Is…

I have a date in a couple of hours (rescheduled from last week).  I know I have a strict policy against looking forward to first dates, but this is one I’m kinda looking forward to.  He definitely qualifies as interesting. Smart as hell.  A writer.  Theater and film.  Successful.  But so far he doesn’t seem […]
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Something Old, Something New (A Response and More)

Yesterday afternoon’s post triggered an interesting wave of comments.  I’m not going to be able to get to all of them right now(I will, I promise. It’s just been a rough week.). As I read them, the thing that stuff in my head was that perhaps I didn’t do a good job of explaining myself.  […]
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