Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Good Daters and Bad Daters, Part 1 – The Good

I guess you could consider this a follow up post, as I’ve brought up the topic of good daters and bad daters before (most recently here and here ). I think it’s a topic that could use some further exploration.  Tonight I’m going to write about good daters. I’ve gone out on a lot of dates in […]

What Happened To My Instincts?

I’ve spent the last hour trying to figure out what to write about tonight’s date. It was with the new guy on the scene, the one I said came off as pretty serious. The good news is that he has a nice smile and we laughed a bit. But it was a hard date.  Not […]
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Another Day, Another Date Redux

Last night was my second date with the Tall man and I was just so not into it. I wanted to be. Really, I tried.  OK, truth is I didn’t try that hard.  He’s just kind of dull.  There are so many interesting things about him on paper (so many contradictions: grad degree in literature, career […]
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Date Machine

I feel a little like a date machine. Tonight’s date was actually pretty good. Another academic but this one was a science guy and he didn’t take himself too seriously. If it wasn’t for the rain and the too loud wine bar it might have even qualified as a very good date. He asked about […]

Dispatch from Datingland

Bachelor #2 had to reschedule on me. He sent a very sweet, very apologetic email telling me about his busy week and his obligations over the coming weekend. He told me he understood if I was getting frustrated with him and that he does, indeed, want to meet me very much. I’m cool with it. […]
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