Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

1 + 1 + 1 = Good Date

I will eventually get down to giving you the names of some of my favorite places to go for dates.  For first dates and for 2nd, 3rd… dates (which I’m really excited about).  But for these first few posts I’m just laying the ground work. Speaking of groundwork, let’s talk about what I think makes […]
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The Basics

I don’t believe in many rules when it comes to dating, but here’s one I believe in – never, never ever, commit to spending more than 30 minutes with someone on a first date.  There’s less than a 30 percent chance that you’re going to like this person.  I’m being generous here.  It’s probably even […]
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The Few, The Proud, The Utterly Lacking in Imagination

I don’t know why, but there are still men who think trendy hotel bars are good places for dates. Why oh why? There is nothing a guy can do to turn me off more than asking me to meet him at the W (any of the Ws) or the Mercer or the Hudson or Ava […]

Little Black Dress and a Smile

I have a closet full of little black dresses.  I’m not exaggerating.  I love getting dressed up, even if it’s only for a drink.  Heck, especially when it’s only for a drink.  I love the fact that I live in a city where there are so many fabulous places a girl can put on a […]

And Away We Go

Last night was my first first date in a while.  Maybe two months (I’m not exactly sure of that, I guess I could check back through the blog archives but what would be the point of that?).  I was thinking about it as I was getting ready to go out last night and it seemed […]
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