Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Back in Olden Days

I’m been thinking about this post for days. Trying to figure out how to frame it… Seems like everywhere I look there are posts about how BAD dating is. Not just online dating, but dating in general. I know some people who claim to have given up on it all together. I’ve certainly gone through […]

Not Boyfriend Material

So I had a fun-ish date last week. Ending with him saying how much he’d like to see me again. I won’t be seeing him again. Why? Because I’ve finally learned my lesson. Well.. this specific lesson. That, timing is everything. OK, maybe not everything. But a lot. It’s something I’ve said before. Timing is […]

It’s a Small World

I was on a date. A first date. With a guy I met online. From the moment we met, he looked vaguely familiar. Not from his photos, but as if we’d met before. He looked like his photos. But he didn’t seem familiar in the photos. Go figure. It hit me about 15 minutes in. […]

Team in Dating

I’ve been slacking on weekends, I know. But I have a fab new Guy’s Story for you to make up for it.  Today’s story is from SFSingleGuy, the author of the blog’s very first Guy’s Story. Team in Dating “Hi!”, said her message in my OkCupid inbox.  Attractive, brainy, and rides bikes.  That was a […]

Something Was Just OFF About Him

Have you ever felt, within moments of meeting a person, that something was just OFF about that person? That’s how I felt about my date last week. And I’m really bummed about it. This was someone I’d met online weeks ago. But because of the holidays (he was traveling) we didn’t have a chance to meet […]