Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

A Twitter Romance

Not every story can be a happy a happy one.  This week’s Guy’s Story is one of the unhappy ones. “I don’t date on-line. Nothing against those who do, I respect the medium, but just nothing I have ever needed to do. Started out as an innocent tweet to a young lady having troubles with […]

Spoiled For Choice

Not too long ago a reader made a comment along the lines of, you’re obviously too picky – you should have met someone by now since you go out with so many men (I’m paraphrasing). I’m sure there are plenty of people who read my blog and think the same thing.  That I’m too picky […]

Too Soon Dude, Too Soon

It looks like I’m not going to be going out with that 33 year old after all.  Sorry, I really was ready to give the whole cougar thing a whirl, but I can’t.  Not with this one.  He just completely blew it. We met online a week or so ago and have been exchanging very […]

Quick Dating Update

There are no second dates on the horizon.  None.  I’m not going to see the heavy drinker again.  Or the recently divorced guy who just moved to the city (Mr. Red Flag).  Or Mr. Early Next Week. I was supposed to have a couple of other first dates over the weekend but there were scheduling […]

The Nose Knows

Sometimes I’ll meet a guy and it takes me a few days to figure out what, if anything, to write about the date.  Usually it’s because I liked the guy but there was some issue that makes me think I shouldn’t see him again. I had one of those dates last week. This is a […]