Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Redefining Butterflies

I think too much, plain and simple.  Always have. I had insomnia as a child, no joke. I’d stay up all night and think – why lie – worry. And I still do. It’s who I am.  This doesn’t mean I’m an unhappy person.  I’m not.  It just means I’m the kind of person who […]

Empty Relationships, Kinda Like Empty Calories

Yesterday I wrote about a conversation I had with a friend about my ideal man (and not a single one of you mentioned the picture of a robot I used to go with the post – it was a joke people, my ideal man = robot, sheesh). One of the many other things we talked […]

Safe

It was, I think, the last night we spent together in LA.  In the morning I’d be flying home to New York and then, a day later, M would be taking off for the first of two back to back business trips.  First, he’d be in Europe for a couple of weeks and then Miami […]

I Like Feelings

I didn’t deal well with my last breakup.  I’m not talking about that little thing I had with Mr. Potential back in the early winter.  There wasn’t much of relationship there and so not much of a breakup. I haven’t had a real relationship in over a year.  Long before I started this blog. And […]
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The Truth

I wasn’t going to write about this because it’s embarrassing. More embarrassing than the stuff I usually write about. But if I didn’t write about it it would’ve been just like lying because this is the biggest thing that’s going on in my sex/dating/relationship world right now. And I don’t lie. So here goes. Today […]
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