Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Damned If I Know

I think of myself as, primarily, a storyteller. Every once and a while I’ll share a how-to  (which usually is more of a “how I did it” than an actual how-to) but one thing I never do is solicit questions from lovelorn readers. Sometimes, though, readers come to me with their questions. And they know […]

#MatchKit – A Valentine’s Day Giveaway

As I mentioned earlier today, I’m going to be doing some fun things with The first of these is a special Valentine’s Day giveaway. The prize is something they’re calling the Love Kit which is designed specifically for the single guy/girl in pursuit of love this Valentine’s Day season. chocolates Manicure Kit/Shaving Kit (depending on […]

Why Do You Ask?

First, let me state that this post is not meant to offend anyone.  Anyone who reads it and is subsequently offended should, perhaps, set aside some time for self-reflection as the only people who would be offended by this post are those who are full of shit.  And if you’re full of shit and I’m […]
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Overheard in New York

Three guys walking down the street on a hot Saturday afternoon. One guy is saying loudly to the two others,  “I don’t get it.  I spent like fifty dollars on lunch.  I did everything right.  And she hasn’t said thank you.  That was days ago.” One of the other guys, “What a bitch”. How much […]

Be Yourself

You all know how much I love dating and relationship experts.  I love them.  I especially love the way they give completely contradictory advice, with a straight face, and then expect people to take them seriously.  And sadly, people do.  Take them seriously.  Because so many of us are so freaking desperate to find love […]
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