Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The futility of reasoning with crazy

I stole today’s title. I was reading Salon and saw an article with this title and damn, I just had to steal it (that’s all I’m stealing, here, I promise). The idea/phrase, ‘the futility of reasoning with crazy’ just seemed the perfect way to sum up some of my feelings about love and relationships. And to […]

Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me

As a recent post in Metanotherfrog reminded me, some kisses are more memorable than others. This is a story of a memorable kiss. I was with a guy, kissing. Well, we were doing more than kissing. All of a sudden I felt him biting my tongue. BITING. My tongue. Not playfully nibbling. Biting. Now, before […]


So last night was the 2nd episode of the Single Edition Radio Show (wait, do radio shows have episodes or editions or installments or…?). Sherri and I were bouncing around ideas for the show, and I strongly advocated for Self-Love. Because, frankly, it’s an issue for me. Not only am I hard on myself. But […]

Sex Matters. A LOT!

I couldn’t sleep. Nothing new there. Hours had passed since I’d gone to bed during which time I’d listened to several podcasts (it’s what I usually do when I can’t sleep). At some point I got tired of podcasts and decided to get up and turn on the computer. And, of course, I checked twitter. […]

How Do You Spell Success?

I’m a very goal-oriented person.  Obsessively so.  That’s one of the reasons I like online dating so much. I know, without a shadow of a doubt, that my efforts will yield results.  So, if I were to be really nerdy and look at this like an equation, it might be: minimal time + minimal money […]