Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

I Guess These Things Come in 3s

First off, all three of the men I’m about to write about read this blog, at least occasionally (well, I am 100% certain that 2 of them know about it and fairly sure about the 3rd). Dear Men in Question:  I’m not asking for any of you to chime in here with your reasons or […]
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Do You Have a Type?

I’ve been dating for a long time.  A looong time.  Some might say, too long. I don’t like to put numbers on it all.  That’d be crass.  But in my many years of dating, there have been quite a few men who I went out with more than just 3 or 4 times.  In other […]
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Counting the Times

Sometimes it must seem like I keep these laundry lists of every awful guy I ever dated and every horrible thing they did, to which I keep referring back to.  I don’t mean it to seem like that.  I’m just an unusually reflective person and have a habit (maybe it’s a bad habit) of rethinking […]
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I was sitting down to write today’s post, had my topic all thought out, when something caught my eye on my tweetdeck.  The Frisky tweeted about a new post, The Worst Breakup Lines Ever. And since I was still finishing my coffee, I figured why not?  I’d take a few minutes to read it.  I […]
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History Will Not Repeat Itself

I’ve never really talked about this here, or maybe I have but it’s been in dribs and drabs.  I guess I’ve been talking around it. I have a really bad history with a certain type of man.  Actually, ‘really bad’ might be an understatement. Tragic. Pathetic. Appalling. And I guess one of the reasons that […]
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