And so, I don’t have a 3rd date tonight with Mr. Red Flag.  I got an email from him late yesterday afternoon, cancelling.  It seems he and his ex have been talking and blah blah blah – it’s not fair for him to be dating anyone else while they’re talking and maybe working on things. [...]

So this morning as I sat down to read the NYTimes I was struck by the headline, Hints of Hope Even as Jobless Rate Jumps to 9.4%. No, this post isn’t about the economy (I don’t want to get depressed).  It’s about hope and perspective. There are people/economists/politicians who look at our current economy and [...]

I didn’t deal well with my last breakup.  I’m not talking about that little thing I had with Mr. Potential back in the early winter.  There wasn’t much of relationship there and so not much of a breakup. I haven’t had a real relationship in over a year.  Long before I started this blog. And [...]

We’d been dating for about 3 weeks and in that time had already seen quite a bit of each other by NYC 30/40 something, busy professional standards. He’d spent the night at my place 3 nights that week and had taken to calling me most mornings as he was on the way to work, to [...]