Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

People Change

People change, but not always the way we want them to.  I’m just going to throw that out there as a starting point. I apologize if I’ve already told this story, or parts of this story.  A long, long time ago I was a young college student.  Not a young, naive college student.  I don’t, […]

Pretty Please With Sugar On Top

Recently, The Frisky did a post/poll called What Would Get You To Take Your Ex Back?  I found it interesting for all of the obvious reasons.  Here were the options they gave readers to vote for: The way back to my heart is through my stomach. Candies, wining and dining, a special home-cooked meal, etc. […]
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Holiday Cheer

In case you’re new here, I’m not currently dating.  I’m not officially on a break from dating.  Not really.  I’ve just got a lot on my plate right now, emotionally and otherwise.  And until I get that all squared away I’m just staying out of the dating pool.  For a little while. Anyway, this is […]
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In response to a friend’s, “How are you?” earlier in the week, I responded, “Numb”.  I know I meant it at the time.  Completely.  But it’s taken me until today to figure out exactly what I meant by it (I’m slow like that). This is hard for me to write, btw. I knew, with all […]
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Innocent Bystanders

I know I’ve said this many times before, but I really love Twitter.  Yesterday I had breakfast with one of my newer Twitter friends, PassionMD, who is seriously one of the sweetest men in NYC. We had a great chat about a dozen different things and, of course, one of them was dating and relationships.  […]
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