Have you ever been having a perfectly pleasant conversation, and then all of a sudden someone says something that makes you realize OMG you really are an asshole? I have this vague memory. I was hanging out with a boyfriend. I was already starting to realize that he might in fact be a bad person. [...]

All kinds of things bounce around twitter. Quotes from famous people. Social media stats. Links to videos. And sometimes, random shit about love. Speaking of random shit about love, here’s a doozy: This was bouncing around a while ago. I grabbed it in a screenshot, knowing I’d want to write about it, sooner or later. [...]

yeah, I know, I haven’t been around much…. I promise to get it together soon. People change, but not always the way we want them to. I’m just going to throw that out there as a starting point. I apologize if I’ve already told this story, or parts of this story. A long, long time [...]

This is one of those posts I thought about not writing. For a couple of reasons. First, I have to admit to some poor behavior (which isn’t new, or even infrequent, but still it’s hard each time). And I have to share details, specific details, about someone else’s life in order to tell my story. [...]

I’ve been thinking about this post. Thinking about it and thinking about it. And no matter how I try to shape it, I keep on going off on wild tangents. So consider this your warning. Wild tangents ahead. I don’t know why, but the other day I was thinking about a conversation I had with [...]