I’m 39 and single.  I’ve never been married, have no kids and have never really lived with a guy, not for any period time.  On these facts alone one might assume a few things:  I’ve dated a lot.  I’ve had quite a few relationships. And that all of those relationships failed. These would be fair [...]

You all know how much I love dating and relationship experts.  I love them.  I especially love the way they give completely contradictory advice, with a straight face, and then expect people to take them seriously.  And sadly, people do.  Take them seriously.  Because so many of us are so freaking desperate to find love [...]

I know, I know – I’ve used this blog on more than one occasion to vent about how difficult it can be for a woman (especially a woman in her late 30s) to date in NYC.  And it is hard. There are, by anyone’s count, more women that men here(although there is some debate as [...]

I was sitting down to write today’s post, had my topic all thought out, when something caught my eye on my tweetdeck.  The Frisky tweeted about a new post, The Worst Breakup Lines Ever. And since I was still finishing my coffee, I figured why not?  I’d take a few minutes to read it.  I [...]

Earlier today I was working on this article, and the premise of it was that it was important to know what you wanted in a guy. Yeah, I realise that not everyone feels that way.  That a lot of people think that it’s good to be open to whoever happens to cross your path.  And [...]