Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Let’s Ask the Experts

Thursday I got a DM from one of my Twitter friends, @TranqJones.  It was a link to this completely mesmerizing and frightening interview with a well know matchmaker. I watched the whole thing in one sitting.  Janis Spindel, the matchmaker, is supposedly one of the top matchmakers in the country.  She’s also scary as hell.  […]

But You’re A Cashier

There’s this Seinfeld episode where Jerry gets dumped by his girlfriend after she goes to see his act and doesn’t think he’s funny.  She tells him that she can’t date anyone who’s work she doesn’t respect.  His response is, “but you’re a cashier”.  I think the funniest line in the episode is his reply, “but you’re a […]

It’s What I Do

So I’m dating again.  Not crazy, 4 dates a week dating but dating. There are a couple of new guys I’d like to go out with and so I’m going out with them.  Of course, I’m super busy right now with projects and personal stuff and blah, blah, blah and so I’m seeing one this […]
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A Quick Thought for This Frosty Afternoon

As I’ve mentioned several times before, I’m one of those crazy Twitterers you keep hearing so much about (it does seem like you can’t  turn on the TV without hearing someone say Twitter).   On several occasions I’ve mentioned to my friends on twitter that I had a date later in the day.  Each time, without fail, I received […]
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I’m kinda, sorta going to be taking a break from dating.  I’ll be writing more about the why’s of that later in the weekend.  In the meantime, I have a whole list of things to write about.  Periodically I get topic requests from readers, or I’ll think of something I want to write about (maybe I’ll […]
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