Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Patience Is A Virtue?

I’m not going to go on one of my rants about experts and others idiots who write books about dating.  I’m not.  I’ve just been noticing lately a lot of articles and posts, both in blogs and mainstream publications about whether or not women should be waiting before having sex with a new guy. Some […]
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Degrees of Separation

Dating in NYC is different than dating other places.  It just is.  It’s not better or worse.  It’s just different. I haven’t dated anyone who knew any of my exes in over 15 years.  And that wasn’t here in the city.  I was living in the UK then.  If I lived somewhere else, most other places, the […]
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I’m Kinda a Bad Person

No one could ever accuse me of being a golddigger.  Not with a straight face.  Sure, I’ve dated guys with money (I dated one guy who had a bedroom closet that was bigger than my bedroom and he lived in a better neighborhood than I did) and I’ve dated guys who were broke.  I’ve never […]
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Dating and Other Nonsense

It could be hard, reading my few last posts, to get a sense of what’s going on in my dating life right now.  So I thought I’d write a quickie and give you an update. Not much. I met a seemingly nice, normal, intellingent, handsome guy on DownToEarth.com (you can read my post Online Dating […]
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Dating – Your Path to Salvation

I stayed up last night to watch President Obama on Leno.  It was probably the first time I watched The Tonight Show in 5 or 6 years.  I really don’t like Leno.  But I wanted to see Obama and so I made myself stay up and watch  (even though I really wasn’t feeling well and should have […]
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