Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Dodged a Bullet

Remember Coach?  Awesome first date, asked me out for a second date right away, talked about how much he wanted to have a serious relationship.  But he couldn’t plan a simple date to save his life and he bragged about being a mamma’s boy. Well, he’s out of the picture.  Not because of anything that […]
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Looking Forward

I got the nicest email from The European today.  He’s still away, in Europe, enjoying his trip.  But he took the time to write and tell me a little bit about what he’s been up to and to tell me that he’s looking forward to seeing me again.  He’s back this weekend, I think, and […]
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It Was Strange

I had a date on Monday night.  A first date.  It wasn’t a bad date.  It wasn’t a good date.  It was a strange date.  So strange that it took me a few days to figure out what I wanted to say about it. Strange. I can’t think of any other word to describe it.  […]

Short and Sweet

Last night’s date with The GrownUP was fun.  He and I get along really well.  Nonstop smiling and laughing.  We’re like old friends. And yet there doesn’t seem to be any romantic/sexual chemistry between us.  No spark. Maybe I’m wrong, but I don’t think so.  I’ve been down this road before. Too many times.  FUCK!!!  I’ve […]

Enough About Sex, Already

I think I’ve blogged more about sex in the last few days than I have in the last few months prior.  I think it’s time for me to abruptly change the topic. Here’s what the rest of my week looks like: I have my second date tonight with The GrownUp.  We’re meeting for drinks at […]