Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

But You’re A Cashier – Update

It’s been 3 days and I still haven’t checked out the link (the link to the new guy’s “art”).  I am petrified. He and I have plans for tomorrow night.  I’m sure he’s going to ask me what I thought.  Did I like it?  And I’m going to have to say something.  “I’ve been really […]
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I used to call these Shameless Self-Promotion Saturdays, but I’m tired of that name. Anyway, I just wanted to take a quick moment to give you an update on a couple of the cool things that are going on with me.  First of all, I’m going to be posting (probably once a month) on Eight […]
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The Break Is Over

It’s Official.  My break from dating is over.  I have a date on Saturday with one of the guys I met on Plenty of Fish.  That was fast, I know.  But he’s good, really good. So far he’s done everything right.  His initial message mentioned something very specific and idiosyncratic in my profile, one of […]
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Dysfunction Junction

Wow.  Just wow.  Last night I sat down to write about good daters. And I did, just not as coherently as I would’ve hoped.  Somewhere in there I took a major tangent (or two).  I guess I had a lot on my mind and wasn’t really all that focused while I was posting. Well I […]
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No Dates this Weekend But…

I’ve decided to take the weekend off from dating, but things haven’t gone completely quiet. I received a very sweet next day email from the guy I went out with the other night (Sorry, no time for links right now. Just scroll down and read the last few posts). It was a completely blah date […]
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