Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Breaking My Rules

I have a date tonight. A first date with a man I met online. And we’re going out to dinner. Now, anyone who’s been reading this blog for a while will know that this is something I NEVER do (notice the caps, bold and underline). I’m a let’s-meet-for-drinks gal. Or maybe coffee. Or a walk […]

One, Two, Three Dates – a quick update

As it stands now, I have 3 dates scheduled this week (none of which are with this guy, btw). I think that may be too much/too many, but these are all men I’ve been communicating with for a while. For weeks (I was out of town for weeks and “met” these guys online right before […]

It Doesn’t Matter. Until it Does.

It came up over lunch, the way it so frequently does. We were three single women. All of us signed up with online dating sites. So we asked each other, how’s it going? The details might change from lunch to lunch, but the basics are always the same.  We’re exchanging messages with some guys. Maybe […]

When In Doubt, Do Nothing

I really don’t have that much to say about last night’s date with Mr. Midwest. It was our 6th date (I think, maybe it was the 7th?). After some last minute changes (scheduling issues, overcrowded restaurants) we ended up at a great local wine bar that we’ve been to before. Tonight was probably the most […]

Maybe Not So Empty?

I had my 4th date with Mr. Midwest last night.  It was nice. Good.  Easy. Fun. Sorry, not feeling particularly articulate on the subject.  The truth is, I have absolutely no idea what to say.  We have fun together.  We enjoy each other’s company (well, I enjoy his company and he seems to enjoy my […]